Monday, April 21, 2008
arh... this is going to be a long n boring whole lot of words of my thoughts. skip this post totally if u wish, nth abt wat u want to know.
1st thing i would want to say be4 my lengthy essay starts. its always a 打击 when i knew pple say that i disappointed them. i may not know i what way or how did it happen, but whenever i c "disappointed" being link with me, its a blow.
back to my main post. questions going through my head.
What is it that a person wants to do for a person he or she like? Theoretically correct answer would be to let the other party be happy. But how true is it.
Most romance shows will screen about wanting the person being happy, and in most endings, the couples get together. But that is only in the drama. In real life, most cases, I dare not say all, will want the other person to like him or her too, rather than just being happy alone. This is considering the fact that when the couple is together, it is natural to be happy. How many people in the world are able to let go of the relationship and wish for the other person to attain real happiness, letting him or herself suffering?
Leaving this topic aside, lets talk about how we can make others happy. Some people suggested that casual talking is the easiest way. Especially when it is comfortable being with the particular person, as in can get along with the person. Will jokes help too? It greatly depends on occasions. Nobody like people making a stupid joke in the middle of something serious. However, at the right time, cracking jokes can really bring out the atmosphere. How to judge when is the time? I’m not certain myself. After all, I was labeled as “anti-climax”.
Back to the main topic, by looking at those points, it looks quite easy to make people happy. Well, among normal friends, its more easy than ever. However, when the situation change, n u want to go after another person, it would be very difficult even if to just having casual talks. Trying to squeeze something so talk casually might make you a nuisance at times. So it is like, the more you try to be casual, the more likely you are going to fail and at the same time, achieve the negative results. Casual talk is meant to be casual. Then the mindset is no longer casual, it will be difficult.
So, after all these self reflections, the only way I can think of talking to a person u like casually is putting everything aside, taking him or her as just a casual friend. This is another topic causing much headache. No answers came to my mind yet, on how to talk to a person that’s not so casual casually. When I derive at an answer, I’ll post again.
There is something else I would be posting on tomorrow.
The above text is written in almost perfect English and is checked by
MS Word 2000. Please bear with any thing that is not so clear.
Maybe I shall consider writing a book after I cleared all my questions in my head.
arh... this is going to be a long n boring whole lot of words of my thoughts. skip this post totally if u wish, nth abt wat u want to know.
1st thing i would want to say be4 my lengthy essay starts. its always a 打击 when i knew pple say that i disappointed them. i may not know i what way or how did it happen, but whenever i c "disappointed" being link with me, its a blow.
back to my main post. questions going through my head.
What is it that a person wants to do for a person he or she like? Theoretically correct answer would be to let the other party be happy. But how true is it.
Most romance shows will screen about wanting the person being happy, and in most endings, the couples get together. But that is only in the drama. In real life, most cases, I dare not say all, will want the other person to like him or her too, rather than just being happy alone. This is considering the fact that when the couple is together, it is natural to be happy. How many people in the world are able to let go of the relationship and wish for the other person to attain real happiness, letting him or herself suffering?
Leaving this topic aside, lets talk about how we can make others happy. Some people suggested that casual talking is the easiest way. Especially when it is comfortable being with the particular person, as in can get along with the person. Will jokes help too? It greatly depends on occasions. Nobody like people making a stupid joke in the middle of something serious. However, at the right time, cracking jokes can really bring out the atmosphere. How to judge when is the time? I’m not certain myself. After all, I was labeled as “anti-climax”.
Back to the main topic, by looking at those points, it looks quite easy to make people happy. Well, among normal friends, its more easy than ever. However, when the situation change, n u want to go after another person, it would be very difficult even if to just having casual talks. Trying to squeeze something so talk casually might make you a nuisance at times. So it is like, the more you try to be casual, the more likely you are going to fail and at the same time, achieve the negative results. Casual talk is meant to be casual. Then the mindset is no longer casual, it will be difficult.
So, after all these self reflections, the only way I can think of talking to a person u like casually is putting everything aside, taking him or her as just a casual friend. This is another topic causing much headache. No answers came to my mind yet, on how to talk to a person that’s not so casual casually. When I derive at an answer, I’ll post again.
There is something else I would be posting on tomorrow.
The above text is written in almost perfect English and is checked by
MS Word 2000. Please bear with any thing that is not so clear.
Maybe I shall consider writing a book after I cleared all my questions in my head.
11:34 pm
Name: Xiong Yishun
D.O.B.: 14/08/1990
School: SP/DASE
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D.O.B.: 14/08/1990
School: SP/DASE
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